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2024
- The beginning of 40 before 40.
- Still a list of 40 to do.
- One new discovery and a bit of the same and nothing done.
- May, the month of momentum.
- This winter…and things still needed to get done.
- The silence that arrived with Spring.
2023
- When an introvert’s desire to learn is larger than the desire to avoid.
- For the love of Sports, and the hate of disappointment.
- The voice finally ushers through, in unexpected ways.
- Small changes. Big effects.
- Being your best at your own rate of change.
- Being heard. Then being understood. Then being human.
- The unconscious conflict of goals, patterns and routine.
- Failure allows for the best rebooting.
2022
- The magic of pause.
- We do not need to wait for something to go wrong to change.
- Lift the blinds and open the window. Let the fly out.
- When a habit requires willpower and you’re unwilling.
- When I didn’t want to self-care.
- When life catches up with you.
- Nothing is a waste of time.
- Each life is a language no one knows.
- It’s not about the pose, it’s the approach.
- The problem with always being prepared.
- The Dead Spot.
- Bookworm Edition: Zero to anywhere.
- I am letting go of my desire for permanence.
2021
- 2021: I sit in gratitude.
- I’m leaving the safety of my shadows for the sunshine.
- You won’t always be heard, but that’s a good thing.
- Read this if you still struggle with opening up to others
- The roots of safety.
- Talk Impact: Lessons learned from spaghetti sauces.
- The end of hibernation.
- Today I am inviting more soulful conversations into my life.
- Talk Impact: Changing your behaviour for the better.
- Here’s why you actually shouldn’t do the things that scare you.
- I Am Slowly Reconnecting With The Fire Of The Feminine
- Bookworm Edition: You have to be ready.
- Don’t forget to breathe.
- It’s the “What Ifs” that hold you back.
- Bookworm Edition: How complicated can it be?
- When change is really the only constant.
- Talk Impact: Forgetting is normal, yay!
- When the brain is feeling fuzzy, and I don’t mean in that warm and fuzzy way of feeling.
- Sorry for being sorry.. .oops, I mean not sorry.
- The importance of the past.
- Bookworm Edition: The Soul of Poetry.
- The greatest gift we could ever give our children.
- What we think of the unchosen option.
- Talk Impact: Growing from the mud.
- Big goals mean small habits.
- The burden of Toxicity.
- Bookworm Edition: Not wise enough.
- Talk Impact: Are you a time-poor person?
- If. Only.
- Falling for Tugela.
- Bookworm Edition: The Wind-Up Novel
- Talk Impact: Are you a Master Procrastinator?
- A little support for those who have supported me.
- Step into the distance.
- Bookworm Edition: The voices in our heads and the power it holds.
- Short word, hard lesson.
2020
- Decluttering life.
- Bookworm Edition: Are you sure in what you believe?
- What is trapped inside you?
- Talk Impact: Can we really trust our intuition all the time?
- Bookworm Edition: Mastery of Intent.
- Small acts. Big impact.
- Talk Impact: Self-sabotage is a thing.
- Barricading in what needs to be let out.
- Bookworm Edition: Who are the real prisoners?
- Talk Impact: 10 minutes doing nothing makes all the difference.
- Get some rest. Real rest.
- Bookworm Edition: From good girl to misbehaved woman.
- The fight isn’t over.
- Talk Impact: Love…an identity crisis.
- What type of travel bug have you been bitten by?
- Bookworm Edition: A Suitable Book
- My story of rejection and road to self-acceptance.
- Talk Impact: Before we die.
- Self-care tips that have helped me.
- Why working with our shadows can help us understand ourselves.
- Bookworm Edition: Remember being human.
- Wow, I need a list.
- Talk Impact: What you need for true happiness.
- The joys of assumptions.
- Bookworm Edition: Don’t worry it’s a generation thing.
- Let your inner child play.
- Talk Impact: What makes you mad, really?
- The learnings from a 3 year old.
- Quiet heart of optimism.
- Who is your everybody?
- P.A.T.I.E.N.C.E.
- Preparation for self-isolation by an introvert.
- Another step.
- Admitting to ignorance.
- Our imagined freedom.
- When you’re in the flow.
- Some recommendations.
- Havana-ooh-na-na.
- It’s January and I’m already humbled.
2019
- The year of purging.
- Be gentle with yourself
- To being changeable.
- Home is not a place.
- Stop taking what you take for granted and start making an effort.
- What kind of person have you decided to be today?
- Can you reject the bad without rejecting the good too?
- Be kind anyway.
- The soul lessons of people.
- Is there a point to positivity?
- What’s important to you?
- Don’t fool yourself, your Emotional intelligence can be improved upon.
- Dear Child.
- Beyond the mind.
- When your old coping mechanisms no longer serve you.
- The Power of Love.
- Be conscious of your thoughts.
- The Destruction of Self.
- Golden second chances.
- A letter of Reflection.
- When you quieten the ego and listen to the Soul.
- Raising.My.Vibrations.
- The Change Formula.
- Shh… It’s a No-No Topic.
- It’s hailing inside and out.
- Generosity in trust.
- What’s in a little hope and faith?
- Believe. Letting Go. Surrender.
- Just Ask.
- Where does real change come from?
- Saying Yes to Others.
- The Self-awareness of unconscious awareness.
- The company we keep.
- You are deserving.
- You are Enough.
- You can always learn new attitudes unless you think you can’t.
- The value of an apology.
- We are always safe.
- How is your old story holding you back?
- The Knowledge of Love.
- Who has your power?
- Releasing resentment.
- It is time.
- The worthiness and gift of accepting help and kindness.
- The Lifeline of Anger.
- Enough is enough.
- Getting out of my soul’s way.
- The odd problem I have.
- Lets live our truth for 2019.
2018
- The pain that comes with growth.
- When Doing gets you no closer to Being.
- My Invitation to You.
- Sharing my island
- 100 steps back.
- How many disguises do you have?
- How do I get out of my own way?
- What is your ghost?
- The wisdom in surrendering.
- When we think we know, but we don’t really.
- The value-bility of time.
- In resistance we live.
- Accepting who you are is (insert profanity here) amazing!
- Your People are Your People.
- Don’t do tomorrow what you can do today.
- Do not underestimate the prep work required to do something good for you.
- Some plans are worth not being cancelled.
- Can you let someone else hold your questions?
- Be Brave, Bali!
- Keep your eyes on the pile of regrets in the corner, as it grows over time.
- Shifting from within comes from within.
- Not for everyone…maybe not right now.
- When life scares you into living.
- Ooohhh My Triggers! Hot, hot, hot.
- Life and those curveballs.
- 7 Reasons to try a 31 Day Vegan Challenge.
- Remembering what my voice sounds like.
- Numbing the pain and joy away.
- The test of 10 minutes of nature to kickstart ourselves.
- The Spices of Life.
- Becoming grey.
- Dead, Alive and the questions in between.
- I was angry until I remembered that miracles exist.
- The hypocrite in me.
- Brave Love.
- Come dance with me.
- The value of 20 minutes.
- Roadtripping with mockingbirds while learning to not give a f.
2017
- My Best of 2017.
- The 3 lessons I learnt from coffee and sugar.
- How to love what you do – Life.
- the pain we should choose to love.
- Why all the rushing through everything?
- Would you allow me the space to fail?
- The Fabulous Book.
- My 5 Commitments for the months ahead.
- Being Brave.
- The Art of War with Children.
- Vietnam with Einstein, Eleanor and Vimbai.
- I had a conversation.
- How my soul died.
- My weight in my heart.
- Early morning; late night.
- One. Girl.
- Dear Home
- B…L…I…N…K
- The post of no sense.
- No longer a stranger to myself.
- The Sinner. The Believer. The Confused.
- Stuck inbetween.
- Thank you for this Blog and Thank you for You.
2016
- The Pause for 2017.
- Birthday Reflections.
- Stop adulting. Start expecting.
- Learning to sit at the table.
- Why I’m here.
- Destroying selfishness by being selfishly happy.
- I run. So I can stop running away.
- Watching the stars disappear.
- My Verdict.
- A Day With Bear.
- How to survive the shadows.
- Stepping out of my comfort zone.
- My year of reading dangerously.
- I believe in magic.
- What language do you speak?
- Thank you 2015.
2015
- Dear Facebook, I hope to not see much of you in the New Year.
- To value time and uncomfortable zones.
- For my love of music and memories.
- What my friends have done for me.
- The time I accepted who I am.
- Running away from the night.
- Be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind.
- Dear Universe, this is what I want.
- When clarity is more of a quiet, nagging voice.
- When it’s easier to get into something.
- All overthinkers will understand this.
- Who is important to you?
- Man (or in this case, Woman) Down.
- That Wedding Ringer Quote.
- My Inner Voice.
- The opportunities of life.
- The existence of time.
- Imagine You 2.0.
- Why dreaming is always better than wishing.
- The plausible adult excuse.
- A year later, thank you!
- Will you go with the flow?
- Perfectly authentic.
- Who is your truth-teller?
- Good friends are hard to find.
- One of those days.
- What is your secret?
- I am the colour Orange.
- Foolish beliefs.
- A four letter word.
- Routine changed my mind.
- Let me have my bookworm moment.
- The choice to believe.
- Quitting? No, Letting Go.
- Time.
- Happiness for you.
- My complaint for the day.
- Me, myself and I. You, yourself and you.
- The look of calm.
- Safe risks.
- Are you adding value to your own life?
2014
- What growing older means.
- Reflection.
- 7-S.
- Good people.
- PH.O.M.O.
- Everyone deserves their own island.
- Here today. Gone tomorrow.
- Head or heart. Thinking or feeling.
- Fear of failure and all that.
- Third time lucky.
- My first love.
- Not the V-word
- To some of the males in my life
- What type of gym-goer are you?
- A season? A Reason? A lifetime?
- What was wrong with my vision board?
- What do you allow to influence you?
- Do not wear big shoes
- Half a step this time
- Welcome to the thoughts in my head